
Making the
Script Unique
Making the
Script Unique
Nail biting is a common problem that is easily treated with hypnosis. Even though the problem is common hypnosis will work better if it is tailored to fit the exact experience of the current client. Everyone experiences their problem in their own unique way. This part of the tutorial shows how to identify beliefs and resources
In order to understand the behaviour of nail biting it is necessary to identify how the client experiences the problem, and to find out what resources and barriers the client has. This checklist of questions is used to prompt the therapist and helps to reveal why, when and how the client bites or chews their nails. It may also identify resources the client has that can be used against the nail biting habit. These answers provide a set of precise targets and resources unique to the client that can be used during hypnosis.
Nail biting: RESOURCES |
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Target Area |
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HISTORY of NAIL BITING |
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When did you start? |
Environment |
Why did you start? |
Beliefs |
How often do you do it? |
Behaviour |
CURRENT PATTERNS OF NAIL BITING |
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When do you bite or chew your nails? |
Triggers, Environment |
What do you like about it? |
Belief |
What do other people think about your nail biting? |
Peer pressure resources |
How do you know when to start and when to stop? |
Environment, Triggers |
RESTARTING |
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Have you ever tried to give up? |
Motivation |
Why did you stop? |
Motivation |
How did you stop? |
Resource |
How long did you stop for? |
Resource |
Why did you restart? |
Triggers & Environment |
RESOURCES |
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Personal Experience - stopping |
Capability |
What have you tried? |
Resource |
Other people's experience |
Resource |
What is the worst thing about nail biting? |
Beliefs |
Will other people support you to stop? |
Resource |
BELIEFS ABOUT NAIL BITING |
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Why do you do it? |
Identity, Beliefs |
Why don't you just stop? |
Identity, Beliefs |
What do you think when you see other people nail biting? |
Beliefs |
Is there anything would stop you stopping? |
Beliefs |
MOTIVATION |
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Why do you want to stop now? |
Beliefs, negative & positive |
How do you know you can stop now? |
Capability |
What will others think when you stop? |
Resource |
BEHAVIOUR AFTER STOPPING |
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What will be different when you stop? |
Capability, Rewards |
What will you be able to do when you stop? |
Visualisation, Capability |
What will other people say when you stop? |
Resource |
What will your nails look like when you stop? |
Visualisation |
What are you going to do instead of nail biting? |
Alternative behaviours |
What will be the biggest benefit? |
Motivation Resource |
The therapist would not normally ask all these questions directly. Most of the information will be provided when the client describes how their experience their problem. The check list is just to ensure that no potentially useful areas are missed.
As well as being a source of information for the therapist, the constant reiteration of 'How will you stop, when will you stop, what will people think when you stop' etc. works on the client by priming the subconscious mind to think about stopping even before the session begins.
The Behaviour After Stopping section is important. Most clients with long term habits have never actually thought about not nail biting, and have no clear images of what they would be like without it. They are unlikely to offer this information unprompted, so any time spent in this section will put positive images into their mind which can be used as a resource once the session starts.
The session was recorded and transcribed for teaching purposes. The whole script is listed in step 5, with comments explaining what each section and each sentence is doing.